This study seeks to understand the mother's perfectionist tendencies based on Object-relations theory.
This study is followed by the leading research that the mother's perfectionist tendencies and her parenting beliefs and behaviors have a negative impact on her young child's development.
This study is conducted as follows:
First, I looked into the influence of the mother's tendencies and her parenting beliefs and behaviors on her young child's development.
Second, I looked into the perfectionist tendencies. And I was due to the mother's parenting beliefs and behaviors toward perfectionist tendencies argued about.
Third, I looked for child-mother relationship, true self, and false self centered on a theory by D. W. Winnicott.
D. W. Winnicott said, Good Enough Mother provides an environment that gives a young child holding, handling, providing object, mirroring, surviving, playing, and living true self. And D. W. Winnicott said, a young child needs Good Enough Mother for his healthy development.
Forth, I looked for the mother's perfectionist tendencies centered on a theory by D. W. Winnicott.
Fifth, I need Good Enough Mother to a young child's development were arguing about.
The mother does not need to be perfect to be good enough. Good Enough Mother provides an object of having a healthy and safe relationship with her young child. The true relationship of the mother and her young child's healthy development takes place.
Sixth, I think the mother with perfetionist tendencies has a good enough care of childhood have argued. Accordingly, I think that she must be good enough to provide care. Because individuals have received good enough care should be experienced enough to provide care that is able to provide.
Finally, I argued that it needs the treatment to the mother with perfectionist tendencies for her young child. And I've had applied to an Object-relational counseling Which is good enough care to her.