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Foreword / by Ann Rhoades [Founding Executive of JetBlue Airways]=XIII
Acknowledgments=XV
Introduction : Ding, Dong! The Bitch Is Dead=1
You Crafty Career Planner, You : How to Use This Book=6
PART ONE CUT THE CRAP
Section 1. Self-Awareness
1. Getting Rid of the "Hob" on Your Brain=11
The Three Biggest Career-Killing Hobs and How to Handle Them=13
Woman 2 Woman : Knowing Your Worth=17
2. If Busy Were the Indicator of Success, We'd All Be Billionaires=19
3. Reining in the Mommy Guilt=23
Sanity 101 : Five Must-Have Tradeoffs for Working Moms=27
Woman 2 Woman : On Parenting vs. and Career=29
4. Om the Job : How to Beat Stress and Anxiety=33
Keeping in Mind @ Work=36
Action Plan : Self-Awareness Goals=41
Section 2. Social Skills
5. Indirect, Emotions, and Tears(Oh, My!)=44
Why Surveyed Women Preferred Male Bosses=46
Attention Crybabies!=53
6. Competition(Yeah, Let's Talk About It)=55
Why Do Comparisons Trip Us Up So Much?=56
The Real C-Word=59
7. Seriously, Don't Bring Sexy Back=61
Woman 2 Woman : On Harassment=66
How to Handle : Tricky Social Situations @ Work=68
Action Plan : Social Skills Goals=76
PART TWO CALL IN THE GOOD STUFF
Section 3. Personal Effectiveness
8. Be More to Do More : Creating Your Virtues, Intentions, and Goals(VIG) List=81
Virtues : Your Evergreen Self=83
Intentions : Your Present Self=87
Goals : Your Future Self=89
So ... Now It's Your Turn=89
9. Building VIG-ilicious Habits=93
VIG-ilicious Scorecard A=96
VIG-ilicious Scorecard B=96
10. Six Ways to Earn Respect Under the Corporate Umbrella ... and Seven Ways to Screw It Up Royally=99
Small Business versus Large Organizations : Two Different Cultures, Two Different Games=100
Woman 2 Woman : Owning Your Career=108
11. A Note to New Grads=110
Must-Have Skill #1. Communication=112
Must-Have Skill #2. Critical Thinking and Problem Solving=113
Woman 2 Woman : Get the Job Before You Get the Job=114
How to Handle : Tricky Service Situations @ Work=116
Action Plan : Personal Effectiveness Goals=129
Section 4. Team Development
12. Women Were Raised to Be Nice. So What?=134
13. The Cure for Fake Harmony : 100 Coaching Questions for Team Leaders=138
14. Solve the Freakin Problem!(Plus : Two Really Simple Anger Management Techniques)=149
When The Sh*t Hits the Fan―H.E.A.L.=151
Woman 2 Woman : Managing Through Turbulent Times=158
How to Handle : Tricky Team Situations @ Work=161
Action Plan : Team Development Goals=168
PART THREE ALIGN WITH WHAT WORKS
Section 5. Leadership
15. Having Authority Is Like Having a Gun in Your Closet : There If You Need It, but Hopefully You Won't Have to Pull the Trigger=173
Leading from Where You Are=175
Meeting Other People Where They Are=177
No Like-y? No Problem=179
Influence Right Now=180
Woman 2 Woman : Finding Your Voice=182
16. That's Great and All, but Nobody Knows Who You Are=184
What's Your Worth?=186
The Difference Between Mentors and Sponsors=188
Woman 2 Woman : On Networking=189
How to Handle : Tricky Leadership Situations @ Work=192
Action Plan : Leadership Goals=197
Section 6. Toolbox
Tool 1. Career Plan Template=200
Tool 2. Six-Month Check-In Template=203
Tool 3. Personal Career Assessment=205
Tool 4. Leadership Readiness Assessment=208
Tool 5. 20 Things Every Career Woman Must Know=211
Epilogue : The Glass Ceiling Is Only There If You Think It Is=213
Index=217